Although eroticism and sex are no longer taboo in the 21st century Western world, there are sexual practices that are not talked about much.
These include, for example, couples erotic massage or mutual masturbation. Interestingly, the "rougher" practices associated with BDSM are much easier for people to talk about and less shy than enjoying an erotic massage in the presence of a partner or even masturbating in front of each other.
When we think of mutual masturbation, the first thing that comes to mind is long-distance relationships, sexchat or a Skype call in your very intimate clothing - but it's not the only option.
Mutual masturbation reveals a bit of voyeurism and exhibitionism
Let's start by looking at why this is such an intimate way of sexual exploration. Yes, intercourse is very intimate, it's the joining of your bodies, it creates a connection. But when we masturbate, we usually masturbate with thoughts or stimuli that excite us. These can be different, such as porn, videos, stories, memories, fantasies, dreams. But how often can you tell that the object of your arousal is in front of you, hearing their moans, watching you enjoying yourself, watching you being aroused by their presence?
Like couples erotic massage, mutual masturbation reveals a bit of voyeurism and exhibitionism, but without a crowded audience or public.
Mutual masturbation is a great way to learn about your lover/lovers, what they really like and they eat up what you like. What better way to learn what a person likes than to actually see them while doing it. To make it even sexier, you can hear it too. Telling a story can only enhance your experience.
Don't be afraid to add sex toys
For some, erotic toys are still substandard during couple play. Is there a better way to add erotic toys to your couple sex routine?
When some people think of erotic massage, they think that it is only about sex and the massage itself is just a by-product. It's just the opposite, erotic massage can awaken feelings in you that you had no idea about and why not experience them with your partner.
Most couples over time, some sooner, some later, reach a point where sex becomes a rote, passionless routine. There are many ways to liven up a sex life, one of them being mutual erotic massage. If you don't dare to do it, visit our salon where you can do it together.
Although tantra is often synonymous with sex and massage, it is really about connection - whether it is with yourself or between you and your partner. In practice, tantra is about enlightenment: transcending the sexual and spiritual planes by engaging in deeply meditative, spontaneous and intimate sex.